Thursday, October 15, 2015

Movie review - The good Lie - Whay will these lost sudan boys remind you of ?

Just had to write on this amazing and heart wrenching movie that I watched recently on the flight!
My eyes were puffy from the crying when I got off the plane.

The film is a masterpiece. The storyline and scenery, the cast and everything about the film is just wonderful.
It slowly guides you through the emotional state of the characters and gives you time to reflect. 


Here's the summary
Five Sudanese children were orphaned after their village is massacred in the Second Sudanese Civil War. They were then made to go on the arduous and dangerous trek through the plains in order to reach a refugee camp in Ethiopia. 
Along the way one of the boys asked the eldest brother (also known as the chief) to let them rest as they have been walking for many days without rest. A costly mistake as in the morning, he was noticed by their pursuers and his  'chief' took the rap (while keeping the rest of them hidden) and went back with the pursuers. The remaining 4 of them continued their way to the refugee camp. They finally make it there however 1 of them died due to illness. 


They lived many years in the refugee camps (and my heart pained from seeing how many of were hoping and waiting for a new life in America, just like the recent Europe-Sudan-Syria crisis - where they all had one hope which was for a better life in another country - that hope. ... And in this show, the camp seemed well - allowing the character to be able to learn the skills of being an assistant ' doctor' , in having sufficient food, in having friends, but I'm sure not all refugee camp have such amenities and might not even have sufficient food, and the females having to fight off 'predators'  - all the scary scenarios you see written in the newspapers and social media)
Many Years later , these 3 youths were among 3600 selected for resettlement in America, only to have the one girl among them sent to Boston, while the three boys must to make a new life in Kansas City. 

(Yes the bags are the only belongings that have - reminded me of how much we have yet we always say there is not enough. Its all about expectations. But the current generation lament whenever I tell them we have so much already - why do you compare us with the third world when we are already in first world - what I'm saying is to be thankful. It doesn't mean being in first world means you are entitled to more. The foundation of whats important is still the same - employment, food, family etc)

Together, these young men must adjust to an alien culture even as the emotional baggage of their past haunts them. 

(Food wasting scene at the supermarket tugged at my heart and reminded me indeed how wasteful I am in a developed countries where we usually won't touch food beyond expiry date while in the other needy countries, food is food. Peel off the moldy parts and eat the good parts. Even if it has been a trash, as long as its edible its good)

 However, these newcomers, and their new friends like employment counselor Carrie Davis, strive to understand each other in this new home, as they make peace with their histories in a challenge that will change all their lives.

(Reunion with their sister and brother reminded us indeed how family is the foundation of everything. The deepest love of all. )

(Comparison of the life when he returned back to the refugee camp many years later to search for his brother - with that of his peers who till date have not made it out )

(while sourcing for a job, also reminded me that those who need help, probably it isn't to make them fit into the job, but to check out their strengths and love then to match the jobs to it, so they are internally motivated to keep themselves in the job rather than others having to keep an eye on them to make sure they are still in the job)


Now while living in comfort, we are going back in times looking for the basic foundations -to care for others, to show gratitude, kindness - the values which have been lost in the times where we were taught to live for ourselves. And this movie reminded me of how much more we should be thankful for. 

Tuesday, September 22, 2015

The Idea Village picks 15 startups for next business accelerator season

Always love how startups are born from trying to solve problems.
Upcoming are 15 startups that Idea Village had picked for the next business accelerator season. 

So I've added the extra info I found on each startup :p

IdeaX
  • iSeeChange, Julia Kumari Drapkin – A "community-driven almanac" that lets users record local observations about the changing environment and compare it to NASA satellite data. http://thealmanac.org/about.php
Okay I don't really understand the importance of this startup but it seems quite a big thing with so many sponsors and investors.


  • Grok + Bankter, Staacy Cannon & Keegan Brown – An ad-tech company that has developed proprietary technology to trace offline connections through devices and can measure the effectiveness of advertising.
Grok + Banter is an ad-tech company in the Internet of Things and big data space. We have built a proprietary system that intuitively deciphers the offline world through connected devices, which enables us to measure the effectiveness of out of home advertising. 
  • Lend Stand, Aaron DeLong – An online lender to businesses and nonprofits.
Lend Stand is an online lender to businesses and nonprofits working in the public enterprise space.  Lend Stand provides simple, convenient financing to small businesses working with federal, state, or local government agencies and to nonprofits working with development organizations.
  • Freesource, John-Michael Alderson, Adam Mitchell & Dustin Renaud– An alternative ad agency providing "scalable, social responsible" marketing solutions for small business and nonprofits.
Freesource delivers a scalable, socially responsible marketing model that rethinks the way services are delivered. By offering an alternative to the traditional ad agency, we increase efficiencies for businesses, support and connect the creative community and offer a self-sustaining resource that helps startup non-profits grow and thrive.
  • Juggle, Brendan Minard & Sonny Smith – A tool for mobile companies to manage and organize a freelance workforce.
uggle is an essential tool for mobile companies and their ‘gig economy’ workforce to organize and optimize their daily activities while adjusting for changes on the fly.
  • The Sweat Social, Rupa Mohan & Manoj Mohan – Fitness solutions for travelers visiting New Orleans.
The Sweat Social provides fitness solutions for travelers visiting New Orleans who want to look their best, energize their trip, connect with the city and go home in shape, feeling great.  

Digital MediaX
  • Culturalyst, Sam Bowler – A web platform that allows users to easily "discover and directly support local culture."
  • DreamStarter, Arielle Jordan & Kaitlin Kubisch -- A web platform that connects people to self-help experts.
  • Kudoboard, Aaron Rubens – An online tool that allows groups of users to gather photos, videos and messages of appreciation -- a.k.a. "kudoboards" -- and send to friends and family.
  • MySpiltMilk.com, Alex Rawls -- A website covering New Orleans music and culture.
  • Toured, Karynn Verrett – A mobile app that provides personalized travel content to individuals. 
EnergyX
  • OBOCS, Julie Kuchta & Michael Miller -- OBOCS stands for on-board oil containment systems, which allow boom to be deployed immediately and quickly at the site of a spill.
OBOCS provides a unique system of oil spill containment wherein boom can be deployed immediately at the site of a spill without the need for external air blowers or support vessels. The boom is inflated as it comes off of the reel, resulting in decreased time, labor, and resources required for deployment in the event of a spill and it can be deflated as it returns to the reel when being used for training purposes. 
  • Louisiana Technical Instruments, Chad Deville -- A startup that helps pipelines meet emissions standards through a technology that reduces "methane bleed."
Louisiana Technical Instruments specializes in the emerging methane emissions reduction market. Our technology adapts to pre-existing controllers to drastically reduce methane bleed, thus improving the environment and helping pipelines achieve the new emissions standards moving forward. 
  • 3rd Dimension Media, Brett Gauthier -- A services firm that provides 3D animation, interactive training and marketing materials for use at trade shows, company meetings and in training.
3rd Dimension Media specializes in technical 3D animations, interactive training, and sales/marketing Solutions. Their product is an essential way to capture your audience at trade shows, presentations, and in the training room. 
  • Data Specialties Group, John Tauriac – A service company that combines data, electronic maintenance systems and real-time visualizations to improve oil and gas well monitoring.
Data Specialties Group is a data monitoring, manufacturing, and service company that provides vertical surveillance solutions for creating safer operations in hazardous environments. They integrate condition based monitoring, electronic maintenance systems, and real time visualizations into Intelligent well monitoring.

Tuesday, September 15, 2015

FOC DIY Workshops Happening at Nee Soon South (Khatib)

Well, Good things I've got to share

With so many raves on Instagram and Facebook on DIY Things
e.g.  Copper making Lamps


e.g. Handwriting -  Typesetting, Calligraphy





e.g. Cute clay art



e,g, Cocktail Mixology


e.g. Terrarium Creation


e.g. Balloon Sculpting



THIS WEEKEND SUNDAY 
20TH SEPTEMBER 2015
THERE'S A FREE WORKSHOP 
* MATERIALS INCLUDED 
HAPPENING AT 
NEESOON SOUTH CC (WALKING DISTANCE FROM KHATIB MRT)

*DON'T SAY I NEVER SHARE!
RSVP Now at http://tinyurl.com/qzsct7p

Registration closes this Friday at 3pm.
Limited Slots!



I'll be there!
See you!

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Movie Review- Dearest 親愛的 ( How many children have been abducted that has yet to be found?)



Just had to share my thoughts on this movie that I caught while on a business trip - yes- in the plane.
Dearest 親愛的


Based on a true story, the film centers on Tian Wenjun (Huang Bo), a divorced father in Shenzen who lets his son, 3 year-old Pengpeng, run off to play with neighborhood kids only for Pengpeng to get abducted while he was chasing his mother's car

Wenjun and ex-wife Lu Xiaojuan (Hao Lei) quickly mobilize to search for Pengpeng, but to no avail.

False reports.
Attempted scams.
Humanity.
Greed.
Life.

What stuck in my mind was one incident where he jumps off a bridge into a river to escape scammers trying to steal his ransom money. Where this grown up man wails pitifully telling them bashing a knife pleading these thugs to let him go as he needs the money for his child.

The pain.
The desperation.

Three years later, Wenjun gets a message that a boy suspected to be Pengpeng is in a small village in a remote province. Working with Xiaojuan and friend Han Dezhong (Zhang Yi), Wenjun snatches the boy and runs. But the boy screams for this 'mother' whom he have stayed with for the past 3 years, Li Hongqin (Vicki Zhao), who gives chase along with the rest of the village.




The mix of thankfulness that he was 'trapped' in the hands of someone like Li Hongqin who loves him gives me comfort - as my fear of the recent report that appeared on facebook - of children being captured and sold into other countries as beggars together with anger as to how she can robbed the parents of 3 precious years with their child. And worse the fact that the child no longer identifies them - but instead cries out for Li Hongqin as his mother.

The fear in his eyes for his own parents.



Can 3 years make such a difference?

Love the child acting.
The change in facial expression.
The dazed look in the eyes.


As for Han Dezong (seemingly the cheerleader for the parents whose children have been kidnapped) , he experiences both elation and bitterness at Pengpeng’s return, because while he’s happy for Wenjun, his own child was never found. That gnawing sadness and hope that seems to fade - I can't imagine. Worse, if he and his wife want another child, they’ll have to clear it with the government due to the One Child Policy – and doing so requires that they willingly declare their first child to be dead.

But for parents whose child returns to them after the many years robbed, how their lives change.
The fear. The suspicion.

Wenjun, after getting back Pengpeng, leaves his house late at night to throw out the trash - and the scene shows him having a sleeping Pengpeng slung over his shoulder - the fear of losing him once again - so the safety is to bring him everywhere he goes.

The added in details of the sister that was truly abandoned and picked up by Li Hanqing who then try and get custody - was abrupt and made me wonder what was the intention for that? To portray the fact that there are indeed many abandoned children in the homes?



My personal take was that the front part of this movie was great. But as they added more characters in and cut short the deepening of plot in each scene, with many touch and gos - it lost me at the end of story and felt very unfocused. And this twist in the story that Li Hongqin indicates that her husband had bought the child to her saying he was abandoned confuses me even after the show ends.
 But the first part draws out many emotions among the viewers which I found made it still a good movie to watch.

Rating 4* out of 5*

Stolen Children

Also bring my thoughts to the article recently of orphanages being cover up for kidnapped children.
Sigh Sigh.

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

Random rant

Its been a number of years since I started blogging and to me, its about recording my escapades and the causes I believe in. I don't write well. And sometimes I wonder is it because I don't spend enough time doing so. Or ?

What do I want to see in my blog that's important to me?

1. My views
2. People realizing whats' happening in the world
3. Sharing the good and the bad - food, events (most importantly experiences)

Random thoughts that I wanted to pen down.
As age catches up with me, and many new entries of bloggers with eloquent writing, I decided to remind myself of the purpose of this blog.

Thankful for the many years of invitations to events that I never would have gone if not being invited, dressing up as cartoon characters for movie screening, Designing jeans and shoes for a certain brand and many more.

To my readers, love yourself so others can love you too :)

Somewhat a foodie

Very particular about my food.
But yes its what breaks or makes my day.

After church, my cellies introduced me to this yummy place.
23 Jumpin
The Commerce Irving, #01-25, 1 Irving Pl, Singapore 369546

The crispy fried drumlets dribbled in honey.
Lalalala....
 
And the duck confetti - though presentation was so so. The meat was very tender (but portions small?) Or was it nice and hence I did not feel it was enough? lol
 
Only 1 complain about the pork stew. I thought it would be like the beef goulash that I usually have, But this was too watery and the taste a little bland. And the pork ermm...

But their desserts redeemed that dish. 
Though I think they should have melted the marshmallow a little more and smear it a little over the waffle. The lava molten cake in the middle was the killer. Loved it!
The waffle if it had been thicker would also help add points to this dessert.

All in all,  4 stars our of 5. Would definitely be going there more often.

Out for another meal in Bugis and was thinking of what to eat. Seeing such good reviews for this place, Yoogane Bugis - being the best Galbi Chicken that taste just as it is in Busan according to the review, I was sorely disappointed.

Though service was fantastic, the food was bland I felt. And the chicken didn't feel all that fresh and chewy. Well the cheese idea was good though.

Was it me? Let me know. Being a big korean food lover, I don't know about going back there.


Sunday, May 17, 2015

Planning to represent your country for UN Women Project Inspire 2015

Applications close on 1st July 2015. You can apply it here
Project Inspire must be made of 2-4  people.
Your project must directly impact or benefit women and/or girls living in Asia Pacific, Africa or Middle East.

The theme this year is 'Design as a Tool' 
Utilizing design as a tool for social good. 
Additional examples of design include the creative planning of clothing, products, systems,
websites and even organizational structures!

Examples
2013 People’s Choice Winner, Liter of Light redesigned recycled plastic water bottles to create affordable night-lights which run off solar energy.

Grand Prize

Thanks to MasterCard, the grand prize winner will receive a US$25,000 grant to implement their project.

Runner-up

Thanks to Hilton WorldWide, the runner-up will receive a US$10,000 grant each to implement their project.

Ten finalists will each receive

  • 1 return flight from the finalist’s capital city to Singapore, to participate in the grand final.
  • 1 ticket to the Project Inspire Grand Final on November, 13 2015.
  • 4 nights accommodation in Singapore, plus meals and transfers.
  • Exclusive INSEAD and Bain & Company workshops, plus one-on-one mentoring.
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